That's
why I tell you that helping others isn't a responsibility but something
that brings happiness and comfort. I often do it, and I often feel happy.
(Master laughs.) Happiness doesn't come only that first time or the
second or third time. I feel happy every time I help others. Of course,
there are different kinds of happiness each time. To be able to help
truly needy people, oh! I feel so comfortable, so contented! Perhaps
sometimes we may suspect whether those people really need help or not,
but if they ask, I give. We shouldn't suspect that they're lying. Even
if they're lying, that's their business, and I still help them. At that
time I may not feel very happy. However, it's better than withholding
help skeptically. Because after I get home I may think, "Ah! I
should have helped them at that time."
Sometimes
we might pass by street people, but we have already driven past them,
so we have to drive a long distance before we can turn back. And I feel
happy only after I've helped them. If I just drive past without turning
back to help them, I surely feel uncomfortable after I get home, feeling
that I failed to take an extra step to help people. So I don't know
why it's so hard for some people to help others. You don't understand,
really don't understand! When you give more, you'll know how happy you
are. The more you give, the more joyful you feel, believe me! (Master
laughs.) You don't have to give a lot. Give as much as you can, but
you don't have to give away all your property leaving nothing for yourself
and your family. No, no! We should also take care of our family. Then,
if we're still in a position to help others, we should try to help,
and then we'll feel very happy.
When
we give help to people in need, we feel very comfortable in our hearts,
just as though we're receiving help; we feel an empathy with those people.
The reason is very simple. If you were the one in need, and suddenly
someone came to help you, wouldn't you feel great? (Audience: Yes!)
You'll know it if you think this way. It's not necessary to have magical
power to know it. The happiness of that person becomes your happiness
because you clearly understand what he feels, like knowing how hungry
people feel when they get food.
Likewise,
when I help others, it's as if I become that person; that's why I feel
so happy. Whomever I give to, that person seems to become me so he and
I both feel very happy. However, I'm happier than he is because I not
only feel his happiness, but I also know that I've brought him happiness.
The two together make me happier than he is. That's why we say, "The
giver is happier than the receiver."
Therefore,
if you don't give or help others, it's really a great pity! Such a pity!
You miss those happy opportunities. I'm not forcing you to give alms.
I'm only telling you that it's is an opportunity to have happiness and
joy. Karma or no karma, we can talk later! Never mind karma when you
give. Only think of those in need, without thinking about yourself,
and only then will you be happy. If at that time you're still thinking
about karma, feeling afraid while giving, then don't give because you
won't be happy at that time. When you give, you should completely disregard
the consequences. Only then will you feel happy. Previous
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